Author: crinamorpho
I am deeply passionate about working with vulnerable children, adults, and their families, with a focus on education, parenting, mental health, and wellbeing, as well as empowering people to begin their own personal journeys and find their path in life. I grew up in a disadvantaged family, and that experience shaped who I am today, giving me resilience and a strong sense of purpose in this amazing world we call home. My journey has led me to this path, and sharing my lived experiences is my way of encouraging others to believe in themselves and put their faith in God. Even in the darkest moments, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. This is what I am passionate about, and what I continue to build through my work and my writing.
Viața înainte și după căsătorie
Dragostea este îndelung răbdatoare, plina de bunătate, dragostea nu pizmuiește, nu se laudă și nu se umflă de mândrie. Acesta este unul din favoritele mele versete din biblie.
Am așteptat, ne am rugat și s-a întâmplat!
În sfârșit am întâlnit persoana cu care, avem credința că ne vom casatorii. Începem să ne ”facem curte” ca mai apoi să intrăm în casă.
Cum sunt primele întâlniri? pline de miere, de sclipici cu lipici, de pisi, de iepuraș, pui și așa mai departe…
În primele lunii vedem persoana aceea fără defecte, perfecta chiar, alintări peste alintări, bucurie maxima și imaginație bogata. El se comportă ca un adevărat Romeo, cavaler, iar femeia este o adevărata domnișoară cu toate bunele maniere și vocabular de prințesă.
El o invită în oraș, și tot el plătește nota de plată. Ea se îmbracă elegant, se parfumează și rujează, iar toată seara curcubeul le cântă peste cap.
Frumos la început, avem nevoie de aceste memorii, de primul sărut, primul te iubesc și mesaje la 2 noaptea cu TE IUBESC!
DAR, dupa ce perioada de miere trece, să zicem 6 luni, apare perioada de dragoste adevărată, acum ne comportăm normal, vedem persoan de lângă noi exact așa cum este și suntem împreună la bine și la rău.
El își introduce degetul în nas, ea se îngrașă și vraja se rupe, nimeni nu mai este perfect!
Important este să fiți mereu împreună, să existe respect și dragoste adevărată în cuplu/familie.
Traumatic experiences
Children cared for by child protection services are among the most vulnerable youth
populations, typically caused by the events that precipitated involvement in child
protection services, such as physical or sexual abuse, family violence, or neglect.
Trauma is the experience of severe psychological distress following any terrible or life-threatening event. Sufferers may develop emotional disturbances such as extreme anxiety, anger, sadness, survivor’s guilt, or PTSD, depression.
“Dr. Peter Levine, who has worked with trauma survivors for twenty-five years, says the single most important factor he has learned in uncovering the mystery of human trauma is what happens during and after the freezing response. He describes an impala being chased by a cheetah. The second the cheetah pounces on the young impala, the animal goes limp. The impala isn’t playing dead, she has “instinctively entered an altered state of consciousness, shared by all mammals when death appears imminent.” (Levine and Frederick, Waking the Tiger, p. 16) The impala becomes instantly immobile. However, if the impala escapes, what she does immediately thereafter is vitally important. She shakes and quivers every part of her body, clearing the traumatic energy she has accumulated.”
― Marilyn Van M. Derbur,
Not perfect, just forgiven
For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God put forward as a propitiation by his blood, to be received by faith. Romans 3:23-25
Our only hope is in the perfect merit of Christ. He became our perfection and he is the only way into Heaven. The problem is while we are saved by faith alone in Christ, that faith will result in obedience and good works.
Now, who is perfect, or better asked, who thinks is perfect?
We are not, but Jesus is. Our God’s grace is bigger than my sins!
Donations for poor children- Christmas time 🎅🏽
MÂNDRIA
”Mândria unui om îl coboară, dar cine este smerit cu duhul capătă cinste”
În latină (superbia)
ce este mandria din punctul tau de vedere?
Unii oameni spun ca exista 2 feluri de mândrie ( normala și exagerată), că mândria este bună, e în regulă să fii mandru…
Eu cred ca mândria duce la treapta în care iți ruinezi viața. Dacă ești așa de mândru de realizările tale, de serviciul tău, de rezultatele la examene, te-ai gândit tu în mândria ta și la alții?
Cred că asta face diferența între mândrie și smerenie, nu este un lucru rău să te bucurii de realizările tale, dar să fii mândru și să vorbești, gândești toata ziua la ele, nu vei mai avea timp să te gândeștii că acestea sunt daruri temporare de la cel de sus, toate vor disparea în 50-60-80 ani. Atunci când vom ajunge în cer ce ți se va număra?
Oare rezultatele examenelor sau faptele bune, faptul că ai dat o pâine la un sărac, sau că ai iertat pe fratele care ți-a greșit amarnic?
Știați că mândria l-a izgonit pe Lucifer din RAI, el era cel mai strălucitor, frumos, încâtătoare creație a lui Dumnezeu, dar s-a umplut de mândrei, era plin de el și vroia să ajungă pe scaunul de domnie al Domnului, așa că și-a adunat o mulțime de îngeri de partea lui, doreau să facă război împotriva celui ce i-a creat. Așadar, Dumnezeu l-a izgonit din cer, și acum este numit SATAN, este în centrul pământului încercând să ne ademenească, să fim împotriva Domnului, vrea să fim ai lui. DAR eu deja sunt salvată și știu că nu voi merge în IAD ci în RAI, sunt de partea Domnului. Tu de ce parte ești?
Nu fiți mândrii ci smeriți. Ignorați mândria știind ca nu duce spre bine.
”Căci mândria inimii tale te-a dus în rătăcire, pe tine care locuiești în crăpăturile stâncilor și domnești în înălțime; de aceea, tu zici în tine însuți: “Cine mă va arunca la pământ?
“Voi pedepsi – zice Domnul – lumea pentru răutatea ei, și pe cei răi, pentru nelegiuirile lor; voi face să înceteze mândria celor trufași și voi doborî semeția celor asupritori.”
NU UITATI DE CAMPANIA DE STRANGERE FONDURI PENTRU COPII SARACI. Apreciez mult, sunt sigura ca si ei vor aprecia! Help me raise funds for poor children
POVERTY
What is poverty?
Is poverty the fact that a person doesn’t have running water or the toilet in the house?
The poverty is when a child slept with an empty stomach, the child had no lunch or dinner, just a slice of bread and some water.
You think it’s not possible, but I know families that afford to buy their daily bread, they are short on money and have no income.
Here is one example:
Mary is 35 years old, she is a single mom of 3 children. She never had a chance to get an education when she was a child.
She has no qualifications, all she knows is how to be a Mom. The Dad left them about 1 year ago, he’s no paying any child allowance. The house is composed of one room, with no electricity or running water, the room is in a bad condition. In the village aren’t any opportunities to get a job. The only income comes from children’s allowance, which probably is around £60 monthly. the question is: how in the world can you feed 3 children and a mom with that wage?
** The name have been changed to protect identity
**The family is from Romania
**True story
HOPE FOR POOR CHILDREN
Poor children live with one meal a day, or sometimes one slice of bread. I met those families, children. They do not ask you for anything, but you can read in their eyes their struggle of day to day to survive.
One family has no Dad figure, and the 4 children live with neighbours, relatives because they do not have a house, no stability.
I am trying to help some families and give children HOPE for a bright future. If you wanna be part of it, just send me a message or support a family.
Together we can change their day, make them smile 🙂
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THE BOOK OF REVELATION
Is the final book of the New Testament, and consequently is also the final book of the Christian Bible. Its title is derived from the first word of the Koine Greek text: apokalypsis, meaning “unveiling” or “revelation.”
I was reading from it last night, is one of my favourite books from the bible. If you have a chance, just read it, it will tell you more than you think.`
You know, some people do not want to stay 5 minutes and think where they will be in 70-100 years from now on, are they 100% that they will go to Heaven when died?
The book of revelatiojn is a prophecy indeed, is like a puzzle book, have you heard about the 7 headed beast?
The Author is John, God allowed him to see the FUTURE
Disadvantaged Families
It’s a choice or an occurrence? What is disadvantaged?
The disadvantage is a complex issue. It can affect children from their birth and left unchecked and unchallenged, which can impact negatively on every aspect of a child’s life.
A disadvantage can be in the long term, usually is driven by poverty, something that affects whole communities, and so on.
There are several reasons why a family may be disadvantaged:
Single parent
Families with substance abuse
Families with teenage parents
Families living in poverty
Transient families
During the CORONAVIRUS, I am sure some families have been struggling a lot.
I am so grateful for the people that can see the need and action.
BE KIND!
T-shirt
Made of 100% cotton 25% from the actual price goes to the disadvantaged families.
£25.00
September
Time flies by! Isn’t it?
We started the lockdown in March ( UK) and we went through a time that we have never experienced before, at least not me.
And now, in September we are used to 😷 masks, social distance, and we are starting to appreciate more the people, things, freedom, the nature, coffee ☕️ shops, and the life in general.
3 more months and guess what month is coming? December is the biggest gift-giving month in the world, hope that by December the things will take a right, good turn in our lives. And people starts being kind, and help more the one in needs.
Have a blessed SEPTEMBER
Bonding and attachment in babies
The word ”attachment” describes the emotional bond between a child and their main caregiver that develops during their early years of life
When the baby is around 9 months can show you signs of emotional attachments. Bonding and attachment in very early infancy is important tfor a healthy development of baby and child, parents need to be aware of importance of interacting and communicating with their baby.
Insecurely attached babies are at greater risk of problems in emotional development, and children with very poor attachment experiences are at greatest risk of failure to thrive in early years they can develop problems like(lowered self-esteem and schooling difficulties in childhood or later in life).
Now, I wanna talk about the bond between a baby and their nanny, nursery teacher, any other person but not the PARENTS.
Imagine, you bring your child to the nursery, the child is 10 months old, the baby comes to the nursery every day from 9 am to 6 pm, now, is that child attached to the people in the nursery more than the parents?
I have experienced a case like this, the child was so attached to me that there were times when he only wanted me, of course he enjoyed his parents, but you can see on parents face the jealousy, when giving a brief feedback about the child’s day.
I am not trying to blame the parents, I am just trying to talk from my point of view, being in the position of taking care in a setting ( with joy, and care) of someone elses child for 10 hours a day, every day. PARENTS, try to understand and see the importance of your children emotional attachment, do not be jealous, at the end of the day that child is YOURS, we are just doing our job with care, joy. passion.
The bonding between the young child and their caregivers provides the experiences required to develop physically, emotionally, and cognitively. Lack of consistent and enriched experiences in early childhood can result in delays in motor, language, social, and cognitive development.
CRINAMORPHO 