Passionate about helping children living in poverty. I am a children's book author & social worker. Proverbs 16:24
Author: crinamorpho
I am deeply passionate about working with vulnerable children, adults, and their families, with a focus on education, parenting, mental health, and wellbeing, as well as empowering people to begin their own personal journeys and find their path in life. I grew up in a disadvantaged family, and that experience shaped who I am today, giving me resilience and a strong sense of purpose in this amazing world we call home. My journey has led me to this path, and sharing my lived experiences is my way of encouraging others to believe in themselves and put their faith in God. Even in the darkest moments, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. This is what I am passionate about, and what I continue to build through my work and my writing.
Is poverty the fact that a person doesn’t have running water or the toilet in the house?
The poverty is when a child slept with an empty stomach, the child had no lunch or dinner, just a slice of bread and some water.
You think it’s not possible, but I know families that afford to buy their daily bread, they are short on money and have no income.
Here is one example:
Mary is 35 years old, she is a single mom of 3 children. She never had a chance to get an education when she was a child. She has no qualifications, all she knows is how to be a Mom. The Dad left them about 1 year ago, he’s no paying any child allowance. The house is composed of one room, with no electricity or running water, the room is in a bad condition. In the village aren’t any opportunities to get a job. The only income comes from children’s allowance, which probably is around £60 monthly. the question is: how in the world can you feed 3 children and a mom with that wage?
Poor children live with one meal a day, or sometimes one slice of bread. I met those families, children. They do not ask you for anything, but you can read in their eyes their struggle of day to day to survive. One family has no Dad figure, and the 4 children live with neighbours, relatives because they do not have a house, no stability. I am trying to help some families and give children HOPE for a bright future. If you wanna be part of it, just send me a message or support a family.
Together we can change their day, make them smile 🙂
Is the final book of the New Testament, and consequently is also the final book of the Christian Bible. Its title is derived from the first word of the Koine Greek text: apokalypsis, meaning “unveiling” or “revelation.”
I was reading from it last night, is one of my favourite books from the bible. If you have a chance, just read it, it will tell you more than you think.`
You know, some people do not want to stay 5 minutes and think where they will be in 70-100 years from now on, are they 100% that they will go to Heaven when died?
The book of revelatiojn is a prophecy indeed, is like a puzzle book, have you heard about the 7 headed beast?
The Author is John, God allowed him to see the FUTURE
It’s a choice or an occurrence? What is disadvantaged? The disadvantage is a complex issue. It can affect children from their birth and left unchecked and unchallenged, which can impact negatively on every aspect of a child’s life. A disadvantage can be in the long term, usually is driven by poverty, something that affects whole communities, and so on.
There are several reasons why a family may be disadvantaged: Single parent Families with substance abuse Families with teenage parents Families living in poverty Transient families
During the CORONAVIRUS, I am sure some families have been struggling a lot. I am so grateful for the people that can see the need and action.
BE KIND!
T-shirt
Made of 100% cotton
25% from the actual price goes to the disadvantaged families.
We started the lockdown in March ( UK) and we went through a time that we have never experienced before, at least not me.
And now, in September we are used to 😷 masks, social distance, and we are starting to appreciate more the people, things, freedom, the nature, coffee ☕️ shops, and the life in general.
3 more months and guess what month is coming? December is the biggest gift-giving month in the world, hope that by December the things will take a right, good turn in our lives. And people starts being kind, and help more the one in needs.
The word ”attachment” describes the emotional bond between a child and their main caregiver that develops during their early years of life
When the baby is around 9 months can show you signs of emotional attachments. Bonding and attachment in very early infancy is important tfor a healthy development of baby and child, parents need to be aware of importance of interacting and communicating with their baby.
Insecurely attached babies are at greater risk of problems in emotional development, and children with very poor attachment experiences are at greatest risk of failure to thrive in early years they can develop problems like(lowered self-esteem and schooling difficulties in childhood or later in life).
Now, I wanna talk about the bond between a baby and their nanny, nursery teacher, any other person but not the PARENTS.
Imagine, you bring your child to the nursery, the child is 10 months old, the baby comes to the nursery every day from 9 am to 6 pm, now, is that child attached to the people in the nursery more than the parents?
I have experienced a case like this, the child was so attached to me that there were times when he only wanted me, of course he enjoyed his parents, but you can see on parents face the jealousy, when giving a brief feedback about the child’s day.
I am not trying to blame the parents, I am just trying to talk from my point of view, being in the position of taking care in a setting ( with joy, and care) of someone elses child for 10 hours a day, every day. PARENTS, try to understand and see the importance of your children emotional attachment, do not be jealous, at the end of the day that child is YOURS, we are just doing our job with care, joy. passion.
The bonding between the young child and their caregivers provides the experiences required to develop physically, emotionally, and cognitively. Lack of consistent and enriched experiences in early childhood can result in delays in motor, language, social, and cognitive development.
La locul de muncă, cu colegii de apartament sau casă, vecinul de la etajul 4, în liceu, la facultate, și așa mai departe
Cu siguranță ați întâlnit oameni care gândesc temporar, au o minte îngustă, dar au ”gura mare”, și o limbă otrăvitoare.
No, de ei să stai departe, ai grija să nu cazi în capcana lor! Te vor provoca și vei cădea în același păcat.
“Dacă ataci replica unui prost, rişti să te trezeşti cu prostul întreg în discuţie”. Nicolae Iorga
Cam asta mi s-a întâmplat și mie, de mai multe ori, încerc să-i evit, dar mi-am descoperit limita, doar nu ați vrea să știți ce-i în mintea mea în momentul culminant, nu-i așa?
Am întâlnit oamenii atât de invidioși, încât îi vezi cum se usucă de pe picioare, fața le îmbătrânește devreme, își doresc ceea ce ai tu, noaptea nu pot dormii, și sunt așa anii întregi, poate chiar toată viața lor. Dar oare se gândesc ca m-ai au de trăit 20- 30 ani, poate chiar câteva zile, luni, secunde de trăit pe Pământ, și apoi, îi vor mânca viermișorii? și la ce folos invidia, cearta, gelozia ?
TU, omule, nu vezi că te frământă invidia, frustrarea, gelozia? ai devenit un monstru cu față de om.
Câteodată suntem așa de geloșii pe unele persoane încât le dorim moartea, vrem să dispară, vrei să le faci rău, dar știi că vei fii judecat după fapte?
Controlează-te când ești atras de persoane cu inima rea, nu te lua la vorbă cu ele, înțelege-i doar că au PROBLEME, de care? Vă las pe voi să completați.
Încă de când ne naștem avem în noi natura cea păcătoasă, odată ce creștem este și vizibilă.
Păcatul a venit în lume odată cu ispitirea Evei, care a luat fructul interzis din copacul BINELUI și RĂULUI. Satan care era transformat în șarpe, pe el să dați vina. De atunci păcatele au început să apară, rușinea, frica, crima, și așa mai departe.
Aseara, îi povesteam lui Daniel despre cum Eva a fost ispitită și cum moartea a fost introdusă în natura noastră. Știți că în aceea grădină exista, de asemenea și copacul VIEȚII VEȘNICE!?
Ne întrebam cum ar fi fost să trăim veșnic, dar oare am fi vrut?
Am ajuns la concluzia că NU, nu vrem, viața asta nu trebuie să fie veșnică, în cer ne așteaptă ceva mult mai MINUNAT și PERFECT, mi ales acum în anul 2020, cu toate evenimentele triste ce se întâmplă în lume…
Așa cum zice și titlul, în principal omul își arată partea mai puțin bună, dar cu bunătate lumească și gânduri ascunse. Atunci când îl cunoști pe Dumnezeu, și ceea ce a făcut el pentru tine, te rogi pentru viața veșnică, citești biblia, și înțelegi însemnătatea versetelor, vei descoperi că Dumnezeu pune în tine și o parte mai buna, natura LUI.
2 CORINTENI 5:17 ”Căci, dacă este cineva în Hristos, este o făptură[a] nouă. Cele vechi s-au dus, iată că toate lucrurile s-au făcut noi”
Avand sau cunoscând natura Dumnezeiască, harul Lui, bunătatea Lui, noi încă experimentam viața în carne (to ”live in the flesh”), natura păcătoasă, DAR înăuntrul nostru cunoaștem ce vrea Dumnezeu pentru noi, și cum să acționam. Deci dacă alegi să te comporți ca un nebun, să invidiezi, să bârfești, să experimentezi MÂNDRIA care pentru mine este cel mai ”bleg” și plin de nebunie păcat.
Și totuși, la un moment dat o sa murim, dar…
Hei, am și un mesaj încurajator pentru noi/voi/toată lumea THERE IS ETERNAL LIFE, EXISTĂ VIAȚA VEȘNICĂ!
Domnul vrea să îți ofere acest CADOU, tot ce trebuie să faci, este să te rogi cu credință și să mărturisești că ești un păcătos dar vrei să primești iertare și viața veșnică. Trebuie să ne gândim la această viață de pe Pământ ca este temporară, dar apoi există ceva veșnic.
Vestea bună este – Cu toate că avem partea rea, Dumnezeu ne iartă, ne dă viață veșnică, și ne dă din natura Lui.
Sometimes I have these days in my life, especially at workplace. Some people prefer to be the opposite of nice, kind and lovely. I think I am a ”lucky” person as I really do not care about people’s opinion (depends on what they say).
I have noticed that if a person is hurt inside, outside acts like a angry, hungry lion/lionesse, ready to argue, to hurt and create pain for the people around them.
Sometimes I have long days, when I feel that the day never goes away, I am dreaming with my eyes open, counting the hours, trannsforming the hours in minutes, just to work for someone’s elses dream, so they can relax, and go to the most expensive holidays?
What do we receive back, sometimes a fake smile, more duties to do, and discriminatory words wrapped in a beautiful gift box with a pink ribbon.
When the days are long and bad, I COOK!
I love baking, cooking, and also i have noticed that every time I shop, I come home with a new ustensil, a plate or a bowl. Is really relaxing to do soemthing for YOU, and also to have the pleasure of offering, sharing what you have baked, cooked.
Have you ever noticed that some people likes ”the game” of pretending to be…?
I think every woman and man from this earth, pretended, for at least few minutes, that they are someone else, not them. Do we call this types of people, FAKE PEOPLE?
Yes, I wanna talk about FAKE PEOPLE, they are all around us. I feel like I wanna give names, but no, Momma said to be NICE 🙂 Just kidding.
I couldn’t say about myself that I have never been FAKE, I did, because it is in our human nature to wear masks. But the key is do you ever stop wearing the masks, do you ever think before deciding who you wanna be today, or do you stop being FAKE, and start being YOURSELF, the real one?
I have received a lot of arguments, comments when I say what I think, or when I give my true opinion, they say ”No Crina, we do not have to say it this way, wow Crina, yeah you right, or they try to wear the angry, fierce mask, or simply they look at me and smile, laugh, with their big eyes open. The thing is that I do not care, I simply wanna be myself.
People pretend to be someone else behind a computer, on social media, at their place of work, at school, or even around their own family. But, deeply inside they can only identify the TRUE, and who they actually are.
My husband read this article and said ”we will always wear a mask, because when we are sad, we do not wanna to show this feeling to people, so we are wearing the “HAPPINESS MASK”.
And this is the reality, especially men are wearing this mask, for them it’s hard to open up, speak about what they feel. For a woman is easy, she goes to work and starts talking about the sadness in her life. Now is this a weakness point?
It’s important to trust GOD to let him change your life, be YOU, be real!
You are unique, nobody is like you, be careful who you trying to be, if you copy a person, or you wearing a wrong “MASK” you can destroy your own unique life!
“Share your weaknesses. Share your hard moments. Share your real side. It’ll either scare away every fake person in your life or it will inspire them to finally let go of that mirage called “perfection,” which will open the doors to the most important relationships you’ll ever be a part of.” ― Dan Pearce, Single Dad Laughing
Are you a busy parent, or do you love your job, or both?
Well, when a baby comes into your life, how do you organise yourself to be a Mom/Dad and still working?
I think is really challenging, as in UK for example, you only are entitle to 1 year of maternity leave. I am trying to walk in these parents shoes, the ones that bring their 8 months old baby to the nursery so they can go to work and gain more money. I will NEVER be able to leave my baby in a childcare setting, pay over £10,000 a year for the day care and at the end of the day spend 1 hour with my baby, before they fell asleep, sounds like a nightmare!
I am aware of the babies development, especially in the early years, the parents needs to be part of their growing, exploring and enjoying every minute!
Do you want them to say first Mom/Dad or their Key worker’s name from the nursery?
I know is so important and vital to have a good salary so you can pay for food, rent, and so on. But can you still survive at least one year not going back to work?!. Just do some calculations and see if you can do it, as I know some parents can do it, but chose not to.
The Government should help parents and to be aware that babies needs to be with their parents at least 24 months, change the law!
