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Family time
In the last year, we have spent less time with our relatives due to a global pandemic that is still affecting us.
But, some parents spent much more time with their children at home. Dealing with homework, managing behaviours, and getting to know more about their children, like-dislike and likes.
The global pandemic has allowed some people to spend more time with their children, which is a ”+” for both parties.
Spending time with family is such an important thing to do. Sure your children will appreciate it,
Do you want to know some benefits of spending quality time with your family?
- Increases self-esteem
- Strengthen family bond
- They feel cared for, loved, listened to
- Can help the child on his/her academic plan (academic performance)
- Reduces anxiety, worries
- It helps the child communicate better and be a good friend.
- It’s not just a plus for children but also for you as a parent. You will feel much happier, fewer worries, better communication with children for future issues, problem.
Spend time with your family as we do not live eternal. Cherish the time you got with your family!
Diverse people sharing one planet
Diverse people. One planet
When a child is born with different conditions, the parents love the child with all their heart! That’s how it should be.
We have to understand that people do not choose their parents, race, country to be born in, disabilities or health. Then why a person discriminates against another person?
Special children are truly special in a positive way.
They are born with a condition they haven’t chosen. We must accept them, understand, love them and treat everyone with kindness and care.
We all came across diverse people in our lifetime, and we will still come across them. Diversity is such a gift from God. It’s like the same gift but wrapped in a different paper with ribbon, some without, other presents are wrapped in blue paper, or yellow and so on.
Have a wonderful day! 🌸
Stare de bine (well-being)
Ce este starea de bine, sau mai bine zis cum se simte starea de bine?
Prin stare de bine, eu înțeleg calitatea vieții a unei persoane, activitățile și obiceiurile zilnice care întrețin sănătatea mintală și calitatea relațiilor sociale.
Stare de bine se aplică tuturor vârstelor, chiar si copiilor mai mici de 5 ani.
Starea de bine nu este un set de comportamente ci mai degrabă este felul în care tu îți percepi viața. Pune-ți următoarea întrebare, ești tu fericit/ă și împlinit/ă?
Ce îți face sănătatea mintală și cea fizică? Starea de bine este suma totală a a sănătății și fericirii care nu rezultă nu doar din a fi în formă, sau practicând un stil de viață sănătos DAR rezultă din rețeau socială, condițiile de trai, status social, sănătatea mentală și emoțională.
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Why it’s good to talk about tough topics with children
Talking about tough topics with their child/ren looks like a difficult job for some parents. They prefer not to discuss and keep it secret or delay in discussing tough themes with children. Depending on the topic, some parents believe it’s for child’s good not to know about different topics.
Tough topics include death, illness, divorce, adoption, sex.
Depending on the child’s age there are different approaches to talk. At every age, children have different questions, they are curious about the world around them, so why shouldn’t we answer them?
You know the famous children’s questions, ”where do babies come from”? My parents used to say that babies are brought by storks.
So, every time seeing a stork, I wonder which new family received the baby that day, or I will look at the bird and ask myself ”where is the baby”? Such a lie and a crazy way of explaining the meaning of a new life.
There are a lot of wonderful and inteligent ways of explaining to your 5 years old child where do babies come from. Explain them with the right words, do not give them false information!
If you can’t talk about a topic then let others do it. But it doesn’t mean that children are not capable of knowing or understanding. Do not keep it secret until you finalise the divorce and then let them know, they will feel lied to, betrayed.
Tough topics were asked one by you, me and other adults. Give the right answer and always provide the right support for your child/ren
Have a wonderful APRIL
Teaching children to be grateful
Start from an early age to teach your child/ren the art of appreciation and gratefulness
Sometimes, children do not understand (depending on age) that to have 4, 5 boxes of toys in the lounge, someone has to work to afford those toys, they aren’t falling from the sky nor a magic formula will bring stuff for us. So we have to explain, teach our children the art of being grateful, thankful with what they have and not asking every day for a robot, doll, Lego and so on
I have witnessed some parents bribing their child with a new expensive toy every time they wanted to go out on a Saturday night, they will say
”If you go to sleep now and behave,m tomorrow we will buy you a new toy” the child is snoring so off they went. Tell me to know, will the child appreciate the toys, or will she/he ever play with that toy?
Start by teaching them to say the magic words ”Thank you and please” Be a role model for them. Treat everyone with kindness.
Talk with children about sharing. Observe the child at a play date, is he/she happy sharing the toys?
What if you ask the children to pack up some toys they do not want and then take them to the children home or the poor family you know. Now is the time for the child to understand the art of gratefulness.
De ce este important să ne exprimăm deschis afecţiunea faţă de copii?
De ceva timp mă tot gândesc la cat de importanta este afecțiunea pentru copil. Părinții joacă un rol foarte important în a dezvolta emoțional copilul.
Cred ca cel mai important este ca un copil să experimenteze, să crească într-un mediu în care iubirea necondiționată îi este oferită.
Știu familii care își exprimă afecțiunea foarte des, alții foarte rar, dar de asemenea știu și familii care nu zic copilului TE IUBESC niciodată!
De ce este important să nu fim zgârciți în a arăta afecțiunea față de copil?
- Stabilește o bază a conexiunii și relației dintre părinte-copil.
- Motivează copilul și îl face să se simtă mândru, plin de bucurie
- Știu că sunt prețuiți și iubiți
- Își poate exprima emoțiile mult mai usor, etc.
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Self-Confidence
Do you have self-confidence?
Self -Confidence is an attitude about your abilities, knowledge, skills. You know your strengths and weakness very well, but most importantly you have a positive image of yourself.
You set realistic expectations, goals, can handle criticism and your communication skills are assertive.
If you look now in the mirror, what are you seeing? A brave lion or a scared little mouse?
To gain self-confidence we have to have good self-esteem about ourselves, DO NOT CRITICISE yourself for a fail exam, event, or whatever. Every day, as a human being we are improving as we are not perfect and is good to learn and reflect on our mistakes. BTW do not get stuck on comparing yourself with other people
Boost your self – confidence by:
Every day learn a simple thing, read one chapter from a book
Have a good routine of self care
Prioritize your own needs and emotions
Surround yourself with good friends
And count your blessings when you feel sad, inferior to other people.
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