#children

Traumatic experiences

Children cared for by child protection services are among the most vulnerable youth
populations, typically caused by the events that precipitated involvement in child
protection services, such as physical or sexual abuse, family violence, or neglect
.

Trauma is the experience of severe psychological distress following any terrible or life-threatening event. Sufferers may develop emotional disturbances such as extreme anxiety, anger, sadness, survivor’s guilt, or PTSD, depression.

“Dr. Peter Levine, who has worked with trauma survivors for twenty-five years, says the single most important factor he has learned in uncovering the mystery of human trauma is what happens during and after the freezing response. He describes an impala being chased by a cheetah. The second the cheetah pounces on the young impala, the animal goes limp. The impala isn’t playing dead, she has “instinctively entered an altered state of consciousness, shared by all mammals when death appears imminent.” (Levine and Frederick, Waking the Tiger, p. 16) The impala becomes instantly immobile. However, if the impala escapes, what she does immediately thereafter is vitally important. She shakes and quivers every part of her body, clearing the traumatic energy she has accumulated.”
Marilyn Van M. Derbur,

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MÂNDRIA

”Mândria unui om îl coboară, dar cine este smerit cu duhul capătă cinste”

În latină (superbia)

ce este mandria din punctul tau de vedere?

Unii oameni spun ca exista 2 feluri de mândrie ( normala și exagerată), că mândria este bună, e în regulă să fii mandru…

Eu cred ca mândria duce la treapta în care iți ruinezi viața. Dacă ești așa de mândru de realizările tale, de serviciul tău, de rezultatele la examene, te-ai gândit tu în mândria ta și la alții?

Cred că asta face diferența între mândrie și smerenie, nu este un lucru rău să te bucurii de realizările tale, dar să fii mândru și să vorbești, gândești toata ziua la ele, nu vei mai avea timp să te gândeștii că acestea sunt daruri temporare de la cel de sus, toate vor disparea în 50-60-80 ani. Atunci când vom ajunge în cer ce ți se va număra?

Oare rezultatele examenelor sau faptele bune, faptul că ai dat o pâine la un sărac, sau că ai iertat pe fratele care ți-a greșit amarnic?

Știați că mândria l-a izgonit pe Lucifer din RAI, el era cel mai strălucitor, frumos, încâtătoare creație a lui Dumnezeu, dar s-a umplut de mândrei, era plin de el și vroia să ajungă pe scaunul de domnie al Domnului, așa că și-a adunat o mulțime de îngeri de partea lui, doreau să facă război împotriva celui ce i-a creat. Așadar, Dumnezeu l-a izgonit din cer, și acum este numit SATAN, este în centrul pământului încercând să ne ademenească, să fim împotriva Domnului, vrea să fim ai lui. DAR eu deja sunt salvată și știu că nu voi merge în IAD ci în RAI, sunt de partea Domnului. Tu de ce parte ești?

Nu fiți mândrii ci smeriți. Ignorați mândria știind ca nu duce spre bine.

”Căci mândria inimii tale te-a dus în rătăcire, pe tine care locuiești în crăpăturile stâncilor și domnești în înălțime; de aceea, tu zici în tine însuți: “Cine mă va arunca la pământ?

“Voi pedepsi – zice Domnul – lumea pentru răutatea ei, și pe cei răi, pentru nelegiuirile lor; voi face să înceteze mândria celor trufași și voi doborî semeția celor asupritori.”

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#children, #copiii, #disadvantaged

HOPE FOR POOR CHILDREN

Poor children live with one meal a day, or sometimes one slice of bread. I met those families, children. They do not ask you for anything, but you can read in their eyes their struggle of day to day to survive.
One family has no Dad figure, and the 4 children live with neighbours, relatives because they do not have a house, no stability.
I am trying to help some families and give children HOPE for a bright future. If you wanna be part of it, just send me a message or support a family.

Together we can change their day, make them smile 🙂

#children

THE BOOK OF REVELATION

Is the final book of the New Testament, and consequently is also the final book of the Christian Bible. Its title is derived from the first word of the Koine Greek text: apokalypsis, meaning “unveiling” or “revelation.”

I was reading from it last night, is one of my favourite books from the bible. If you have a chance, just read it, it will tell you more than you think.`

You know, some people do not want to stay 5 minutes and think where they will be in 70-100 years from now on, are they 100% that they will go to Heaven when died?

The book of revelatiojn is a prophecy indeed, is like a puzzle book, have you heard about the 7 headed beast?

The Author is John, God allowed him to see the FUTURE

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Disadvantaged Families

It’s a choice or an occurrence? What is disadvantaged?
The disadvantage is a complex issue. It can affect children from their birth and left unchecked and unchallenged, which can impact negatively on every aspect of a child’s life.
A disadvantage can be in the long term, usually is driven by poverty, something that affects whole communities, and so on
.


There are several reasons why a family may be disadvantaged:
Single parent
Families with substance abuse
Families with teenage parents
Families living in poverty
Transient families

During the CORONAVIRUS, I am sure some families have been struggling a lot.
I am so grateful for the people that can see the need and action.

BE KIND!

T-shirt

Made of 100% cotton 25% from the actual price goes to the disadvantaged families.

£25.00

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September

Time flies by! Isn’t it?

We started the lockdown in March ( UK) and we went through a time that we have never experienced before, at least not me.

And now, in September we are used to 😷 masks, social distance, and we are starting to appreciate more the people, things, freedom, the nature, coffee ☕️ shops, and the life in general.

3 more months and guess what month is coming? December is the biggest gift-giving month in the world, hope that by December the things will take a right, good turn in our lives. And people starts being kind, and help more the one in needs.

Have a blessed SEPTEMBER

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#children, #development

Bonding and attachment in babies

The word ”attachment” describes the emotional bond between a child and their main caregiver that develops during their early years of life

When the baby is around 9 months can show you signs of emotional attachments. Bonding and attachment in very early infancy is important tfor a healthy development of baby and child, parents need to be aware of importance of interacting and communicating with their baby.

Insecurely attached babies are at greater risk of problems in emotional development, and children with very poor attachment experiences are at greatest risk of failure to thrive in early years they can develop problems like(lowered self-esteem and schooling difficulties in childhood or later in life).

Now, I wanna talk about the bond between a baby and their nanny, nursery teacher, any other person but not the PARENTS.

Imagine, you bring your child to the nursery, the child is 10 months old, the baby comes to the nursery every day from 9 am to 6 pm, now, is that child attached to the people in the nursery more than the parents?

I have experienced a case like this, the child was so attached to me that there were times when he only wanted me, of course he enjoyed his parents, but you can see on parents face the jealousy, when giving a brief feedback about the child’s day.

I am not trying to blame the parents, I am just trying to talk from my point of view, being in the position of taking care in a setting ( with joy, and care) of someone elses child for 10 hours a day, every day. PARENTS, try to understand and see the importance of your children emotional attachment, do not be jealous, at the end of the day that child is YOURS, we are just doing our job with care, joy. passion.

The bonding between the young child and their caregivers provides the experiences required to develop physically, emotionally, and cognitively. Lack of consistent and enriched experiences in early childhood can result in delays in motor, language, social, and cognitive development.

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When the days are long and bad

Sometimes I have these days in my life, especially at workplace. Some people prefer to be the opposite of nice, kind and lovely. I think I am a ”lucky” person as I really do not care about people’s opinion (depends on what they say).

I have noticed that if a person is hurt inside, outside acts like a angry, hungry lion/lionesse, ready to argue, to hurt and create pain for the people around them.

Sometimes I have long days, when I feel that the day never goes away, I am dreaming with my eyes open, counting the hours, trannsforming the hours in minutes, just to work for someone’s elses dream, so they can relax, and go to the most expensive holidays?

What do we receive back, sometimes a fake smile, more duties to do, and discriminatory words wrapped in a beautiful gift box with a pink ribbon.

When the days are long and bad, I COOK!

I love baking, cooking, and also i have noticed that every time I shop, I come home with a new ustensil, a plate or a bowl. Is really relaxing to do soemthing for YOU, and also to have the pleasure of offering, sharing what you have baked, cooked.

I DO RECOMMEND you these amazing set!

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#children, maternity leave

Maternity leave UK

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Are you a busy parent, or do you love your job, or both?

Well, when a baby comes into your life, how do you organise yourself to be a Mom/Dad and still working?

I think is really challenging, as in UK for example, you only are entitle to 1 year of maternity leave. I am trying to walk in these parents shoes, the ones that bring their 8 months old baby to the nursery so they can go to work and gain more money. I will NEVER be able to leave my baby in a childcare setting, pay over £10,000 a year for the day care and at the end of the day spend 1 hour with my baby, before they fell asleep, sounds like a nightmare!

I am aware of the babies development, especially in the early years, the parents needs to be part of their growing, exploring and enjoying every minute!

Do you want them to say first Mom/Dad or their Key worker’s name from the nursery?

I know is so important and vital to have a good salary so you can pay for food, rent, and so on. But can you still survive at least one year not going back to work?!. Just do some calculations and see if you can do it, as I know some parents can do it, but chose not to.

The Government should help parents and to be aware that babies needs to be with their parents at least 24 months, change the law!

What do you think?

#children, #copiii, biblie, dumnezeu, parintii

”Lăsați copilașii să vină la Mine…”

Aceste cuvinte sunt pline de har si de însemnătate. Îmi place mult acest verset din Luca 18:16, Isus le zice ucenicilor să lase copilașii să vină la El și să nu-i oprească.

Noi, ca adulții, avem impresia greșită despre copii când vine vorba despre a avea o relație cu Dumnezeu, credem ca ei nu sunt capabili să înțeleagă relația cu Dumnezeu, sau cuvintele din biblie.

Am văzut copii care știu versete și însemnătatea lor mai bine ca mulți adulți. În 2017-2018 lucram cu copii dintr-un sat, acestor copilași le vorbeam cateva minute din biblie, am văzut ochișori curioși, îndrăzneți, credincioși, plini de puritate, inocență, smeriți și plini de dragoste față de Creatorul lor.

Îmi aduc aminte, cand aveam 11 ani, într-o duminică trecusem pe lângă o Biserică din care se auzeau cantece voioase, eram tare curioasă și vroiam să intru, dar la ușă erau câțiva copii și un lider al Adunării, copii se uitau pe geamul de la ușă înăuntrul Bisericii, și apoi am înțeles că noi, cei mici nu avem voie înăuntru deoarece suntem gălăgioși. Dar de fapt, copii sunt cei care aud și cred, adulții aud cuvântul și au îndoieli, se gândesc la ce să gatească, la ce fac dupa terminarea mesajului, sau fac baloane din gumă. Nu zic că toții sunt la fel, dar vreau să scot în evidență cum copilașii CRED că Dumnezeu îi iubește, așa simplu cum e.

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