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ABORTION

Abortion is when a pregnancy is ended so that it doesn’t result in the birth of a child.

Talking about abortion can be emotional, nightmare, a traumatic experience, it’s also a sensitive subject to talk about it.

There are a lot of people against abortion, charities that are trying to help the pregnant women in order to save the fetus life. I read some news recently about poland ”100,000 people took part in the marches in Warsaw, despite a ban on groups of more than five across Poland, the Government banned the abortions, the are legal only in cases of rape, incest, when the woman’s life or health is at risk or if the fetus is irreparably damaged”.

There are currently 26 countries where all abortions are illegal, regardless if the pregnancy is a result of a incest, rape.

What does the bible say about abortion?

The bible doesn’t say anything about the word ABORTION, that doesn’t mean God doesn’t care about abortion.

God knows every step of in our life, every little detail, He wants us to give life and to be careful with that life.

Also, HE has forgiveness for us, just pray and talk with Him about your thoughts.

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4 common worries for new mums

Being worried it’s natural and normal for new parents, panicking about every little thing and reading books before giving birth, it’s all normal.
Before giving birth, you have different worries than after the baby is born. While you are pregnant you might be anxious that the baby didn’t move yesterday, you are thinking about the labour and delivery, and how will you coop within the first month of your baby’s life.

  1. Is my baby getting enough to eat – I heard some mums saying that they woke up the babies to feed them, I think is a mistake to wake up the baby, if the baby is hungry, for sure the baby will wake up and cry in a way of asking for food. If you are waking up that baby every time he sleeps, for sure, you will make that a routine in his brain so the baby will wake up when he/ she is 2, 3, 4 years old.

2. The fear that your baby will die – Being a new parent can be stressful sometimes. My Mum told me that when I was a baby (in my first days of life) she was so worried that every night she will take turns with my Dad to check on me with the mirror trick to see if I am breathing, now that’s anxiety.

3. The baby is crying too much – A lot of parents discover how often and how long newborns cry, especially for dads could be stressful and they start panicking that something it’s not right with the baby, which usually it’s normal or the baby’s needs are not meet.

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4. The baby sleep – In the first pregnancy some mums read tons of books about baby’s sleep, but you have to understand that every baby is different and special, so if in the book says that your baby needs 12 hours of sleep, well do not believe it, or worse be anxious that your baby is only sleeping 10 hours. The baby will sleep as long as she/needs.

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World Mental Health Day

This year many of us have faced unexpected challenges and changes which have impacted mental health and wellbeing on a global scale, it came like hurricane and destroyed every plan, thought and mostly our social life.

World Mental Health Day (10 October) is an international day for global mental health education, awareness and advocacy against social stigma. It was first celebrated in 1992 at the initiative of the World Federation for Mental Health, a global mental health organization with members and contacts in more than 150 countries

”We know that the levels of anxiety, fear, isolation, social distancing and restrictions, uncertainty and emotional distress experienced have become widespread as the world struggles to bring the virus under control and to find solutions” (https://wfmh.global).

I know that for some people, spending time out, with friends and socializing it’s vital. The pandemic took everything away, more people are developing anxiety, stress, depression. Take care of your mental health by thinking positively, enjoy the family around you, we will get over this!

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Viața înainte și după căsătorie

Dragostea este îndelung răbdatoare, plina de bunătate, dragostea nu pizmuiește, nu se laudă și nu se umflă de mândrie. Acesta este unul din favoritele mele versete din biblie.

Am așteptat, ne am rugat și s-a întâmplat!

În sfârșit am întâlnit persoana cu care, avem credința că ne vom casatorii. Începem să ne ”facem curte” ca mai apoi să intrăm în casă.

Cum sunt primele întâlniri? pline de miere, de sclipici cu lipici, de pisi, de iepuraș, pui și așa mai departe…

În primele lunii vedem persoana aceea fără defecte, perfecta chiar, alintări peste alintări, bucurie maxima și imaginație bogata. El se comportă ca un adevărat Romeo, cavaler, iar femeia este o adevărata domnișoară cu toate bunele maniere și vocabular de prințesă.

El o invită în oraș, și tot el plătește nota de plată. Ea se îmbracă elegant, se parfumează și rujează, iar toată seara curcubeul le cântă peste cap.

Frumos la început, avem nevoie de aceste memorii, de primul sărut, primul te iubesc și mesaje la 2 noaptea cu TE IUBESC!

DAR, dupa ce perioada de miere trece, să zicem 6 luni, apare perioada de dragoste adevărată, acum ne comportăm normal, vedem persoan de lângă noi exact așa cum este și suntem împreună la bine și la rău.

El își introduce degetul în nas, ea se îngrașă și vraja se rupe, nimeni nu mai este perfect!

Important este să fiți mereu împreună, să existe respect și dragoste adevărată în cuplu/familie.

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Traumatic experiences

Children cared for by child protection services are among the most vulnerable youth
populations, typically caused by the events that precipitated involvement in child
protection services, such as physical or sexual abuse, family violence, or neglect
.

Trauma is the experience of severe psychological distress following any terrible or life-threatening event. Sufferers may develop emotional disturbances such as extreme anxiety, anger, sadness, survivor’s guilt, or PTSD, depression.

“Dr. Peter Levine, who has worked with trauma survivors for twenty-five years, says the single most important factor he has learned in uncovering the mystery of human trauma is what happens during and after the freezing response. He describes an impala being chased by a cheetah. The second the cheetah pounces on the young impala, the animal goes limp. The impala isn’t playing dead, she has “instinctively entered an altered state of consciousness, shared by all mammals when death appears imminent.” (Levine and Frederick, Waking the Tiger, p. 16) The impala becomes instantly immobile. However, if the impala escapes, what she does immediately thereafter is vitally important. She shakes and quivers every part of her body, clearing the traumatic energy she has accumulated.”
Marilyn Van M. Derbur,

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MÂNDRIA

”Mândria unui om îl coboară, dar cine este smerit cu duhul capătă cinste”

În latină (superbia)

ce este mandria din punctul tau de vedere?

Unii oameni spun ca exista 2 feluri de mândrie ( normala și exagerată), că mândria este bună, e în regulă să fii mandru…

Eu cred ca mândria duce la treapta în care iți ruinezi viața. Dacă ești așa de mândru de realizările tale, de serviciul tău, de rezultatele la examene, te-ai gândit tu în mândria ta și la alții?

Cred că asta face diferența între mândrie și smerenie, nu este un lucru rău să te bucurii de realizările tale, dar să fii mândru și să vorbești, gândești toata ziua la ele, nu vei mai avea timp să te gândeștii că acestea sunt daruri temporare de la cel de sus, toate vor disparea în 50-60-80 ani. Atunci când vom ajunge în cer ce ți se va număra?

Oare rezultatele examenelor sau faptele bune, faptul că ai dat o pâine la un sărac, sau că ai iertat pe fratele care ți-a greșit amarnic?

Știați că mândria l-a izgonit pe Lucifer din RAI, el era cel mai strălucitor, frumos, încâtătoare creație a lui Dumnezeu, dar s-a umplut de mândrei, era plin de el și vroia să ajungă pe scaunul de domnie al Domnului, așa că și-a adunat o mulțime de îngeri de partea lui, doreau să facă război împotriva celui ce i-a creat. Așadar, Dumnezeu l-a izgonit din cer, și acum este numit SATAN, este în centrul pământului încercând să ne ademenească, să fim împotriva Domnului, vrea să fim ai lui. DAR eu deja sunt salvată și știu că nu voi merge în IAD ci în RAI, sunt de partea Domnului. Tu de ce parte ești?

Nu fiți mândrii ci smeriți. Ignorați mândria știind ca nu duce spre bine.

”Căci mândria inimii tale te-a dus în rătăcire, pe tine care locuiești în crăpăturile stâncilor și domnești în înălțime; de aceea, tu zici în tine însuți: “Cine mă va arunca la pământ?

“Voi pedepsi – zice Domnul – lumea pentru răutatea ei, și pe cei răi, pentru nelegiuirile lor; voi face să înceteze mândria celor trufași și voi doborî semeția celor asupritori.”

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HOPE FOR POOR CHILDREN

Poor children live with one meal a day, or sometimes one slice of bread. I met those families, children. They do not ask you for anything, but you can read in their eyes their struggle of day to day to survive.
One family has no Dad figure, and the 4 children live with neighbours, relatives because they do not have a house, no stability.
I am trying to help some families and give children HOPE for a bright future. If you wanna be part of it, just send me a message or support a family.

Together we can change their day, make them smile 🙂

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THE BOOK OF REVELATION

Is the final book of the New Testament, and consequently is also the final book of the Christian Bible. Its title is derived from the first word of the Koine Greek text: apokalypsis, meaning “unveiling” or “revelation.”

I was reading from it last night, is one of my favourite books from the bible. If you have a chance, just read it, it will tell you more than you think.`

You know, some people do not want to stay 5 minutes and think where they will be in 70-100 years from now on, are they 100% that they will go to Heaven when died?

The book of revelatiojn is a prophecy indeed, is like a puzzle book, have you heard about the 7 headed beast?

The Author is John, God allowed him to see the FUTURE

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Disadvantaged Families

It’s a choice or an occurrence? What is disadvantaged?
The disadvantage is a complex issue. It can affect children from their birth and left unchecked and unchallenged, which can impact negatively on every aspect of a child’s life.
A disadvantage can be in the long term, usually is driven by poverty, something that affects whole communities, and so on
.


There are several reasons why a family may be disadvantaged:
Single parent
Families with substance abuse
Families with teenage parents
Families living in poverty
Transient families

During the CORONAVIRUS, I am sure some families have been struggling a lot.
I am so grateful for the people that can see the need and action.

BE KIND!

T-shirt

Made of 100% cotton 25% from the actual price goes to the disadvantaged families.

£25.00

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September

Time flies by! Isn’t it?

We started the lockdown in March ( UK) and we went through a time that we have never experienced before, at least not me.

And now, in September we are used to 😷 masks, social distance, and we are starting to appreciate more the people, things, freedom, the nature, coffee ☕️ shops, and the life in general.

3 more months and guess what month is coming? December is the biggest gift-giving month in the world, hope that by December the things will take a right, good turn in our lives. And people starts being kind, and help more the one in needs.

Have a blessed SEPTEMBER

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